Sexy Is As Sexy Does
It seems that there are a few recent concerns out there regarding fashion and how it may be taking a turn for the worse. From the lacy camisoles to the low-rise jeans, the look of the 2000's is growing more and more...well, sexy. Although in many instances, the word "sexy" could be replaced with "slutty" or just plain "raunchy" very easily.
I will be the first to admit that I have several lacy camisoles and I will never wear anything but low-rise jeans. (Great for elongating the torso!) I've seen many pretty girls who can pull off the above-mentioned pieces without looking like a hoochie-mama. On the contrary, I've seen many not-so-pretty girls who failed to look in the mirror before they stepped out onto the catwalk.
My point...it's not the fashion trends of today that are so provocative looking, but how you wear them that makes or breaks the deal. And I will say, there's a fine line one has to follow. Over-accessorizing, over-applying makeup, and not wearing styles that flatter your figure are just a few mistakes people can make. Just think moderation.
I found this article, and though a bit conservative, it contains helpful guidelines if you are one of those fashion skeptics out there. So, next time you hit the town, feel free to bust out the sexies if they are, indeed, flattering. But be sure not to cross that fine line. If it's not flattering, stop fooling yourself and wear something that does look good with your body type. You don't have to be baring all just to feel like a lady.
I will be the first to admit that I have several lacy camisoles and I will never wear anything but low-rise jeans. (Great for elongating the torso!) I've seen many pretty girls who can pull off the above-mentioned pieces without looking like a hoochie-mama. On the contrary, I've seen many not-so-pretty girls who failed to look in the mirror before they stepped out onto the catwalk.
My point...it's not the fashion trends of today that are so provocative looking, but how you wear them that makes or breaks the deal. And I will say, there's a fine line one has to follow. Over-accessorizing, over-applying makeup, and not wearing styles that flatter your figure are just a few mistakes people can make. Just think moderation.
I found this article, and though a bit conservative, it contains helpful guidelines if you are one of those fashion skeptics out there. So, next time you hit the town, feel free to bust out the sexies if they are, indeed, flattering. But be sure not to cross that fine line. If it's not flattering, stop fooling yourself and wear something that does look good with your body type. You don't have to be baring all just to feel like a lady.
19 Comments:
At June 14, 2005 10:56 AM,
Jamie said…
I was just wondering about what the 'fashion faux paus' will be when we look at pics of ourselves ten years from now. And I think I found it.
What is up with kids, particularly females, wearing the ultra low cut pants and terrible tight tops? They don't have hips yet, so they have to wear the pants so tight that they push out any fat that is around the waist making them look totally disproportionate. I think it looks absolutely terribly bad. Maybe I'm getting old.
So that, and anything Kevin Federline wears, are bad.
At June 14, 2005 11:05 AM,
Jamie said…
PS You pull off the lacy crap without looking raunchy. I won't mention the playboy party, though. Are there pictures of that?
At June 14, 2005 12:32 PM,
Anonymous said…
If people would just be honest with themselves and realize that not all trends fit all body types, the world would look a lot nicer.
It baffles me what some people wear these days. The balls they have to dare to leave their houses in whatever outfit they thought looked good.
Surprisingly, this book has great tips for people who are couture challenged. Shit. not even couture. Just BASIC DRESS SENSE.
At June 14, 2005 2:31 PM,
Anonymous said…
I'll add: If I can see a shadow under your stomach, cover it up. Not everyone has a six pack, but no one wants to see spare tire pudding. If that's even a term for it. Sorry for the graphic imagery.
At June 15, 2005 6:12 AM,
Anonymous said…
Personally I like the low rise pants but only if you are old enough to vote. Slutty and sexy is a very fine line. Thongs out of the pants is very sexy, however don't wear that shit if I take you home to mama!!! It seams that the overall trend is "less is better" which is OK by me as long as you are not from Trashland City with six kids from four daddy's and enough spare tires to run a nascar race. Seriously you better in the Rusty Wallace "Miller Genuine Draft" T-shirt. By the way Jill you should wear your nascar gear more often.
At June 15, 2005 10:14 AM,
newton dominey said…
don't knock the nascar gear...
the same can be said for the fellas (minus the lacy camisole part). there's way too many dudes wearing curves where there should be angles (and what the hell is the deal with wearing the short sleeve beach shirt anyway?).
thongs belong in pants. i liken them to tan lines: when you see one, you know you're seeing something that not everyone gets to see. it's nice that way. makes a fella feel, well, special.
At June 15, 2005 11:01 AM,
Stella said…
I agree with Newton on the thong thang. Very comparable to the tan line philosophy.
Ironically, I'm wearing my Rusty Wallace shirt today!
At June 15, 2005 11:27 AM,
Anonymous said…
Is it really ironic, or is it more coincidental?
At June 15, 2005 11:37 AM,
Anonymous said…
That is the entire problem! Girls dress to make themselves feel special instead of being classy. Thongs don't always belong in pants, they also belong on my floor, on my head, on my bedpost, on my steering wheel....
Which Rusty Wallace shirt are you wearing? You have so many. Irony would be some Dale Earnhardt thongs!
At June 15, 2005 12:56 PM,
Mr. Roboto said…
Pretty girls can never go wrong wearing jeans, a black tank top, and high heels.
At June 15, 2005 1:31 PM,
Stella said…
What's really ironic is that don't even own a Rusty Wallace shirt. Or is that coincidental?
At June 15, 2005 3:55 PM,
Anonymous said…
I like to wear my Rusty Wallace shirt without anything else on. Is that too revealing?
At June 15, 2005 6:12 PM,
Anonymous said…
Definitely (hopefully?) not ironic when considering the bigger picture. It does go well with a High Life in your hand though.
At June 16, 2005 12:05 PM,
newton dominey said…
speaking of fashion...i think i've asked this before but surely to hell there's a webstore that i can shop at BESIDES urbanoutfitter.com.
any ideas?
At June 16, 2005 1:46 PM,
Stella said…
While I wait on results from my line of fashion experts out in LA, you may want to try www.thebuckle.com. Don't be fooled by the adolescent look of the homepage. Once you dig deep, they have some cool stuff.
I might've even seen a french cuff shirt or two.
At June 17, 2005 6:08 AM,
Jamie said…
I got my baddest ass ever Docs at The Buckle in Cool Springs, if that's the same store. Alan Jackson was buying clothes there that day, too. Does that count as a degree of separation?
At June 17, 2005 7:07 AM,
newton dominey said…
depending on the state you're in, it could count as stalking!
At June 17, 2005 9:26 AM,
Stella said…
Totally forgot about H&M (hm.com). They have really cool stuff but you can't order online yet (???). You have to order a catalog and go from there since there's not a store within a 400 mile radius of this place.
At June 17, 2005 4:21 PM,
Anonymous said…
So disappointed Jill, you didn't give me any credit for The Buckle....sigh.
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