Little Reassurances

In all my banter over the past year on the woes of dating and in all the times I was advised to go fish from a different pond...the following quote (if you don't mind me quoting you) is yet another reassurance that there is hope for trust. Couldn't have come along at a better time. Maybe I just like the philosopher behind the words...or maybe it just makes so much f*cking sense.

the thing is, everyone has "cravings of the flesh." men might have more than women, or men might just be more apt to feel and/or give in to them. do i feel them? yup. do i care to act on them? not really. have i acted on them in the past (before i met best wife ever)? yup. was it worth the trouble? not really.

maybe i'm just lazy, but it's sure easier to not mess with all that messin' around. and it feels really good knowing that i have the rest of my life to figure out one woman - what makes her tick, what makes her laugh, what makes her cry, what makes her angry, what makes her get off...

i've got my whole life to figure her out, and it might take my whole life. i think that's why God set marriage up as a one on one, permanent type thing. i couldn't imagine trying to figure out two of her. maybe it's just me, though...

~ ND